You will know it if you have come a time when there is no one who will be able to show up and catch up on friendships. That is when we knew we have grown into adult who have either a family of our own or a big career, or a big business that can’t be separated even for a moment. For me, mostly I catch up on the on-goings of my circle of friends from the social media ie Facebook, watsapp, instagram and any text messaging app to just say “hello” and “talk to you later”.
Things changed, people changed and at times conversation is still the same. Why? It is because it is the best memory your friend and you had and the most wonderful time together. So, now you know why meet ups and catch ups are precious moments of golden memory comes alive again! To feel young again, go back into the future self of 20s is just hard to come by BUT with someone who had gone thru with you back then with the same conversation, it made all the memory and feelings of youthfulness back instantly. I was a child back then, quite chubby yet petite, timid yet very happy-go-lucky kinda girl as I would describe myself. Sigh!
Having catch up reminds us on what we have done so far, how we come such a long way on where we are stand right now. How happiness was made and memory created, some bad and good in which which good ones were the ones which is the most empowering to pick us up right now if we are down.
Never alone on your thoughts, talk to your friends who you can trust. Meet ups and catch up aren’t so bad afterall, all your have to do is SHOW UP. No pressure, just be yourself. Your style and fashionable sense does not matter. Wear what is comfortable, at least brush your teeth since you will be chatting up lots!
What happen to me was, we ended up chatting for so long that 3 hours of catching up seems to be too little time.
So you next time! babe.
” Good Music doesn’t have an Expiration Date”.
Ketchup Matchup always,